After a woman’s first date at her expensive favorite restaurant, the man insisted on covering both bills, leading her to feel uncomfortable and violate her privacy. She expressed her concerns on Reddit, seeking validation for blocking him after the date. The woman usually opts for more casual first-date locations but agreed to the pricey restaurant at the man’s request. During the meal, the man changed his mind about splitting the bill, grabbed her card, and remarked on learning her last name, unsettling the woman. Working as a bartender, she was wary of potential fraud or felonies. Feeling uncomfortable and suspecting mind games, she blocked him after the date. Reddit responses varied, with some supporting her decision to cut ties and others suggesting she overthought the situation. The woman later sent him money for her part of the bill, acknowledging the lessons learned from the experience.
