Six weeks ago, my four-year-old daughter Tess asked if I’d cry when she went to the ocean with “Dad and my other mom.” I kept my hands steady on the steering wheel, but my heart cracked in silence.
“Who’s your other mom?” I asked, my voice calm.
“Mom Lizzie,” she shrugged. “She says you’re the evil one.”
Later, I dropped Tess off with my mom and checked the nanny cam I’d hidden months ago. Lizzie was curled on our couch, Daniel beside her, laughing. A kiss on her temple. His hand on her knee. Just like that, the truth unfolded—quiet and undeniable.
I didn’t yell. I documented. Then, I drove two towns over and printed the screenshots on matte paper. I called a lawyer. When Daniel received the envelope, he called me in panic. I let him talk. I stayed silent. Days later, the divorce began.
We took a trip to the coast—just Tess, my mom, and me. Tess fell asleep on the porch of the rental cottage, curled beside me. “I miss them sometimes,” she whispered. “But I think I love you the most.” I didn’t speak. I let the tears come.
Weeks later, I stood at Tess’s birthday party—planned entirely by Lizzie. She approached me with a cupcake and guilt. “I love her like she’s mine,” she said. I looked her in the eye and asked, “Then why did she think I was the evil one?”
I turned and walked away. Not defeated. Just done. My daughter still reaches for me first. And that will always be enough.