A 31-year-old woman shared on Reddit her lifelong mistreatment by her family, especially her favored older sister, Mary. Despite health challenges from birth, she was labeled an “accident” and reminded of her financial burden. After distancing herself and finding support with her husband Greg, they settled elsewhere.
Upon returning to her hometown due to her grandfather’s illness, her family’s behavior shifted, but it became clear they expected her to be a surrogate for Mary, who was infertile. Refusing due to her high-risk pregnancy history, she faced backlash, feeling conflicted.
Respondents validated her decision, emphasizing her right to prioritize her well-being over familial pressure. This tale highlights the impact of familial neglect and the importance of setting boundaries for self-preservation.