My husband Carter’s hobby addiction drained our finances and my patience. When I secretly took a vacation with my work bonus, I didn’t expect the change it would bring.

Carter seemed perfect when we married, but his post-wedding hobbies turned costly. First, it was gourmet cooking. He bought fancy gadgets, but never cooked. Then came brewing beer with my Christmas bonus, followed by an expensive telescope using our tax refund. Finally, drones cluttered our apartment, with Carter asking for more money.

Fed up, I decided to take a break. My boss gave me a bonus, which I secretly used to book a beach vacation. Carter was upset, calling me selfish, but I needed a break.

On the beach, I rediscovered myself, away from Carter’s whims. I joined a yoga class and met Lisa, who reminded me to put myself first. The peaceful days and new experiences rejuvenated me.

Returning home, I was ready to face our issues. Carter met me at the airport, looking remorseful. “I’ve realized how selfish I’ve been,” he said. “I want to talk about everything.”

For the first time in months, I felt hopeful. Our journey wouldn’t be easy, but I was determined to find balance and prioritize our relationship. My vacation wasn’t just a break—it was a new beginning.