Ryder’s 18th birthday should have been special, but his father’s absence left him devastated. Learning that his dad chose a fishing trip over him shattered Ryder’s hopes.

Growing up, Ryder’s parents argued and eventually divorced. Mom did her best, but Dad, absorbed in work and hobbies, was rarely present. As Ryder’s birthday approached, he hoped Dad would finally show up.

Ryder planned a small party with Mom and friends. Despite texting Dad, he only replied, “I’ll try to be there.” When the big day came, Dad didn’t appear. Ryder’s heart sank as he called his father, who was out on the lake. “I’ll catch you later,” Dad said nonchalantly.

Ryder spent his birthday hiding in his room, crushed by his father’s absence. A week later, Dad called, offering a gift. Ryder hoped for something meaningful but received a fishing rod instead. Dad suggested they go fishing together, revealing his lack of understanding and priorities.

The fishing rod, a symbol of Dad’s neglect, made Ryder realize he would never be a priority for him. He decided to stop waiting for Dad and focus on those who truly cared—Mom, friends, and himself.

Ryder threw himself into music and helping Mom around the house. He found strength in their love and support. Mom’s sadness was clear, but Ryder reassured her, knowing he had enough.

Dad never changed, and Ryder accepted that some people will never meet your expectations. Instead, he learned to cherish those who do and find happiness within himself.