After 13 years of marriage, a woman’s world was upended when her husband, amid plans for a drastic cross-country move, demanded a sudden separation. On February 3, 2024, she shared her bewildering story online. Her husband, once content, suddenly expressed frustration with his job and planned to apply for a position far away. He suggested a separation, launching into an unfounded tirade about her faults.

In the following weeks, she discovered his extensive communication with an old friend, a recently divorced woman who helped him secure the job opportunity. Their interaction was intense, with over 500 texts a day, totaling 24,000 in a month.

Her story received overwhelming support online, with many deeming her “NTA” (not the a**hole) for her reactions. Her husband expected to relocate the entire family, including their two children and his mother. She reflected on her past sacrifices, including previous relocations for his career, and found his expectations unreasonable.

The situation escalated when her husband’s one-day job interview turned into a four-day trip, where she found evidence of his plans for a physical relationship. Confronted upon his return, he admitted to being “unhappy for 15 years,” leaving her questioning her next steps.

Considering divorce and physical custody of their children, she faced her husband’s insistence that the children needed their father. He cited his own experience growing up without a father figure, arguing she needed to prioritize the children’s well-being. This revelation left her at a startling crossroads, contemplating her future and the impact on her family.