A 35-year-old woman found herself in a dilemma over a family heirloom, an emerald necklace tradition passed down to the eldest child on their 14th birthday. She planned to give it to her daughter, Emily, but her husband, Joey, suggested giving it to his daughter from a previous marriage, Sophia, as a sign of acceptance. Despite her objections, Joey persisted, accusing her of favoritism and suggesting she buy a replacement for Emily. Seeking advice on Reddit, users overwhelmingly supported her decision to stick to tradition, noting Joey’s hypocrisy and possible ulterior motives. They encouraged her to prioritize her daughter’s feelings and uphold family tradition. The situation strained her marriage and led to arguments with Joey’s family, who sided with him. Despite the conflict, the woman remained steadfast in her decision, seeking validation and support from online communities amidst the turmoil.