In 2017, a South Carolina father, Randy Smalls, discovered his daughter, Re’Onna, was bullying classmate Ryan Reese. Having faced bullying himself as a child, Randy chose a compassionate approach. Instead of punishing Re’Onna, he took Ryan on a shopping spree, using the money meant for his daughter. The act aimed to teach Re’Onna a life lesson and address the impact of her behavior.
Randy co-signed bullying, explaining that if Re’Onna laughed along, she supported the hurtful actions. The shopping spree wasn’t a one-time event; Randy continued supporting Ryan, taking her to beauty salons and helping her purchase outfits regularly. Ryan, dealing with personal losses and depression, found renewed confidence through Randy’s kindness.
Randy emphasized parental responsibility, urging parents to take action against their children’s bullying. Re’Onna and Ryan have reconciled, and Re’Onna now stands up for Ryan at school. Despite initial fears, Ryan appreciates the positive change in their relationship. Randy even invited Ryan to the annual Valentine’s Day father-daughter dance, where both girls were treated to new dresses.
This heartwarming story illustrates how a father’s unconventional response to bullying can bring about positive transformations, fostering empathy and understanding among the young girls involved.