A woman said her friend of over 25 years got engaged to her boyfriend after four months of dating. Many were skeptical about the engagement, but the Redditor gave the relationship the benefit of the doubt.

A few months before the wedding, OP also got engaged. Her friend did not even ask to be part of her wedding, which she found suspicious. But it does not end there. OP’s fiance found out his grandmother was close to the end, and he was closer to her than his mother.

So he suggested he and the Redditor go to England to spend the rest of her days with her. This was also around when the bride was having her bachelorette party. But the dates of the party and her wedding had yet to be confirmed when OP made plans to be in England.

However, both events fell on the days she would have been in England. So OP called the bride to explain her situation, but she sulked and told her she was ruining her wedding. The Redditor apologized and promised to make it up to her after her wedding, but the bride hung up in her ear.

OP thought it was best to give her time to cool off, but before she could check back in with her, she heard from her best friends that everyone got a handwritten note inviting them to the wedding, but OP never received it.

Her other friends were invited to the bachelorette party, and the bride made sure to host it in their town so they did not have an excuse not to attend. But the weird part was that the bride never said a word to those friends the entire night.

Everything about how the wedding went down was weird for OP, but she later realized that she was grateful not to have such a person as a friend anymore. It hurt to lose 25 years of friendship, but she felt it was for the best. “Best part? Everyone hated her wedding: terrible food, terrible DJ, and disorganization like crazy. I never wish ill upon anyone, but damn, am I amused. Phew!” She wrote.