When my sister Alicia died, I was just six. My memories of her are scattered—her laughter, the smell of her strawberry lip gloss, her painted nails. She was seventeen when the accident happened, and my world changed forever. Years later, when I was twelve, I found a silver ring with a tiny blue stone in her jewelry box. It fit my finger perfectly, and my mom let me keep it. “It’s nothing valuable,” she’d said. But to me, it meant everything.

For nine years, I kept Alicia’s ring in a velvet box. It became my connection to her—my way of holding on when the rest of the world moved on. So, when my brother Daniel used that ring to propose to his girlfriend without asking me, I was devastated.

He made the announcement over dinner, everyone cheering while I sat frozen. I confronted Mom, only to hear, “It’s just a ring,” again. Daniel said, “You were six. You barely knew her.” But I knew her enough to miss her every single day.

Later, I met Rose, his fiancée, for coffee and told her everything. To my surprise, she took off the ring and gave it back. “It’s beautiful,” she said, “but it’s not mine.”

Daniel called me selfish. My parents said I ruined a proposal. But when I wear the ring, I don’t feel selfish—I feel like my sister is still with me.

So I ask you—was I really wrong for wanting back the one piece of her I had left?