Planning Kate’s bachelorette party was supposed to be a joyful experience. As her maid of honor, I wanted to make it unforgettable, so we booked a beachside weekend at a beautiful resort. The cost was $2,500, which came to $312 per person for the eight of us. I trusted everyone would reimburse me after I paid upfront.

At first, everyone was enthusiastic. But as the trip approached, payments were delayed. Jessica and Hannah asked for more time, while Rachel and Emily went silent. Feeling uneasy, I sent a final reminder. When most of the group still hadn’t paid, I realized some had no intention of reimbursing me.

Determined not to let them take advantage of me, I devised a plan. I booked special activities—a private yacht trip, a fancy dinner, and a sunset beach party—only for those who paid. When we arrived at the resort, I informed them of this arrangement. Faced with the reality of missing out, the bridesmaids quickly found ways to pay.

As payments came through, the tension eased, and we enjoyed the planned activities. The weekend turned out to be everything Kate had dreamed of, and by the end, those who had delayed paying apologized sincerely. The experience was a valuable lesson in standing up for myself and ensuring that everyone took responsibility. Ultimately, it reinforced the importance of friendship and respect in our group.