Am I Wrong for Not Telling My Future In-Laws About My Background?

I’m marrying the love of my life in three months, but his parents made it painfully clear—they don’t think I’m good enough. I’m Elena, 27, Spanish-American, and the owner of a thriving photography studio. But when I met Liam’s parents, they dismissed me instantly. Candace called my career “artistic,” and Albert laughed that “anyone can pick up a camera.” I smiled through the insults, not wanting to cause tension.

Every Sunday dinner came with a fresh jab. “Real education matters in this family,” Candace said one night. I kept quiet, reminding myself who I was and what I’d built. But the final straw came before her birthday party, when she asked me to downplay my career to avoid “misunderstandings” with their intellectual guests. I nodded politely—but I was done playing nice.

At the party, Candace introduced me as Liam’s “photographer girlfriend.” Not fiancée. Not partner. Just… hobbyist. Then came the twist. Dr. Reeves, a renowned researcher, recognized me from my years in environmental science. “You’re the Elena?” she asked. “Your research changed everything!” The room went silent. Candace looked like she’d seen a ghost.

Later, in the kitchen, she hissed, “You made us look like fools.” I calmly replied, “You judged me without ever asking who I am.” I never lied. They never bothered to learn the truth.

That night, I asked myself: was I wrong for not telling them sooner? Maybe. But I wanted to know if they’d respect me without the titles. They didn’t.

And that says more about them than it ever could about me.

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