This Saturday, I hosted my son Asher’s sixth birthday party at the local park. He didn’t want anything fancy—just balloons, cake, and his friends. I decorated the picnic shelter myself, hung streamers in the wind, baked glitter cookies, and planned games. Most parents just dropped their kids off, barely saying hello. I kept smiling, assuming everyone would tell me if their child had allergies or needs.
The party went smoothly. The kids laughed, smeared frosting on their faces, and hugged me after their prizes. Asher was radiant in his paper crown. By evening, we were home, exhausted but happy. He fell asleep on the couch, and I was unpacking leftovers when the knock came.
Three parents stood at my door, looking furious. “What did you give them?” one demanded. “Coke? Candy? Kavi’s been bouncing off the walls!” I was stunned. I apologized, unsure what they expected. Then Priya said, “Come with us. You need to see her.” Confused, I agreed, carrying a sleeping Asher to their car.
We arrived at an unfamiliar house. I barely stepped inside before twenty people shouted, “Surprise!” The living room was decorated with balloons, thank-you signs, food, and wine. I stood frozen. “We saw how much you do,” Priya said. “We wanted to give something back.” They’d tricked me—beautifully.
Later, as kids played in the backyard, Priya said, “Asher told Kavi he doesn’t miss having a dad because ‘my mom does everything anyway.’” I choked up. That night, I realized I hadn’t been parenting alone. I had a village all along—I just hadn’t seen it yet.