They Criticized Mom in Her Obituary

When a loved one passes, family members typically handle writing the obituary—a task usually filled with warmth and tribute. Many aim to remember the deceased respectfully, but not all families create a flattering piece. Some are unflinchingly honest, as was the case with Kathleen Dehmlow’s obituary, written by her adult children.

Published by The Redwood Falls Gazette, Kathleen’s obituary began like any other, but soon hinted at deep family discord. The last line was particularly shocking, and its unexpected candor sparked both curiosity and backlash. This reaction led the paper to remove it from circulation, though by then, the obituary had already gone viral.

A family member, Dwight, later confirmed its contents, sharing his own perspective. He noted that Kathleen had made a mistake six decades earlier, for which she had shown remorse, emphasizing that everyone has regrets. However, the obituary’s authors felt unresolved anger, hoping their words would make a lasting impact.

The Gazette’s CEO addressed the controversy, explaining that while they ensure high standards, there’s no legal restriction on an obituary’s tone. Following complaints, they reviewed Kathleen’s obituary, drawing even more public interest.

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